Thoughts provoked

Awesome post I came across... Fight for me - not because I deserve it but because I need to see that you will walk through the #flames and your choices will not be swayed by my #mistakes, I need to know that the first sign of #turbulence won't make you change course and that you have just as much courage and #loyalty as I carry within my own heart, fight for me, not because I need you to prove some form of egocentric heroism, but rather that you view our relationship as something where endings are just not even an option and when push comes to shove you won't jump ship and abandon, I need to know I can be vulnerable without judgment, I need to be able to reveal weakness without being dominated, I want to count on you even when I cannot count on my own self, fight for me, fight for me because you believe with out me life will cease to exist and in your mind I am the air in which you breathe and the bond between us is something that is built on unconditional, fight for me, when ...

Oh and its not the songie John Mayer's daughters,  but a beautiful poem Pa shared with me :') Some of the most beautiful words for daughters Kya likhun ?… Ki woh pariyon ka roop hoti hai… Ya kadakti thand mein suhaani dhoop hoti hai… Wo hoti hai udaasi ke har marz ki dawa ki tarah… Ya os mein sheetal hawa ki tarah… Woh chidiyon ki chehchahahat hai, Ya ke nishchal khilkilahat hai… Woh aangan mein faila ujaala hai.. Ya mere gusse pe laga taala hai… Woh pahad ki choti pe suraj ki kiran hai… Ya zindagi sahi jeene ka aacharan hai… Hai woh takat jo chote se ghar ko mahal bana de… Hai woh kaafiya jo kisi gazal ko mukkamal kar de…       Kya likhun ??… Woh akshar jo na ho toh varn maala adhoori hai… Woh, jo sabse zaada zaroori hai… Ye nahi kahoonga ki woh har waqt saath saath hoti hai, Betiyaan toh sirf ek ehsaas hoti hain  बेटियां तो सिर्फ एक एहसास होती है  Woh mujhse australia mein chuttiyaan, mercedes to drive, 5 star mein dinner ya mehenge...

A lovely fwd..... After 21 years of marriage , my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you. The other woman that my wife w anted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a sur prise invitation is a sign of bad news. "I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. " Just the two of us. " She thought about it for a moment, and then said, " I would like that very much. " That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, ...

The Dumbest thing is to..... .....is to waste your time :P This might sound glib, but two people especially friends, relatives, or partners not talking to one another over a mutually perceived slight, is a complete waste of time. Obviously it follows, that the longer they remain incommunicado and persona non grata, vis- a-vis each other, the more time they must be wasting. Yet people are capable of speding years. even tens of them, and often close to or including a lifetime, that's left to them without resuming any form of relationship with the other. When and if they manage to get away successfully, it;'s because each believes the other is to blame without thinking that it takes two wrongs to make a third. So, whose time is being wasted? Clearly, not the rest of the world's because that has its own demands to deal with Clearly, not that of one’s immediate folks and kin since they too eventually abdicate any concern they might have initially harboured. What’s clear,...